I don't know about you guys but I have known to complain a little every so often, and sometimes more than just a little. It seems like a natural part of life, things don't go my way, I complain and move on. However, have you ever thought what it would be like to not complain at all? I try to be a positive person overall and try not to complain too much although there are times I catch myself in a rather foul mood where I am like the complaint train. I think on a regular basis though staying positive has better effects that going negative.
Anyway, I saw a thing on Facebook yesterday that challenged people to be complaint free for one day. I kind of shrugged it off at the time, I mean I don't usually complain that much right?? But the more I thought about it, the more I realized how even when I don't realize it I complain about stupid small stuff all day. About my kid not listening to me when I tell him not to go behind my chair, or that lunch didn't turn out exactly how I thought it would, or how I have to write 2 one page essays before tomorrow! I know that those are just small baby complaints but I also realize that small complaints easily turn into bigger complaints and before we know it the complaint train is rolling steadily down the tracks.
What do you think God thinks about us complaining about stuff all the time? Sometimes, sure we have really terrible days and the rain clouds of doom are raining down on us but usually are things that bad? I used to have a friend that would constantly say "It could be worse" to every complaint we had and he is right. 99% of the time things that I have to complain about are nothing compared to what others are dealing with. So why do it? What does it gain us? How does it help in our relationship with God?
What if instead of complaining about what is wrong why not pray for help, for patience, for guidance or strength? What would happen if we stopped complaining for one day? If instead of complaining we looked for a positive in the situation or looked for a different perspective? What is this situation trying to teach us? I think overall we would find that they are lessons in how we can more fully rely on what God is trying to teach us.
So here is the challenge, this week take one day and try not to complain, about ANYTHING! I know it will not be easy, I think in a way society has trained us to complain about things. But this week we are going to do it differently, don't complain, pray. Ask for a different perspective. Certainly we might fail, we are human after all but keep trying. Then let me know what happened. I will be sure to update you all as well. Baby steps is all we are asking for. We can't change ourselves or the world without first starting with baby steps. Good luck and I look forward to hearing about your adventures this week.
Until next time,
~Michelle
Monday, May 18, 2015
Monday, May 11, 2015
Gratitude
I was inspired by my little sister for this weeks blog. She posted on her Facebook about her experience at the Garth Brooks concert on Friday night. I appreciated her post and I felt like I would also chip in about my experience as well.
Friday night my husband Nick, a friend Carrie and I went to the Garth Brooks/Trisha Yearwood concert in Omaha, Nebraska. I had seen Garth Brooks in concert many years ago and have watched his concert specials and such when I was growing up. My older sister was obsessed with Garth Brooks so in turn I have grown to love him as well. I appreciate his music and have always felt that he puts his whole soul into his music. And his concerts are amazing. You can truly tell that he loves what he does.
My little sister was pointing out the other day about how grateful that Garth is about what he does and the privileges that he has. He is a person that seems truly grateful to be doing the exact thing that he loves. And he appreciates the audience for coming out and playing with him. Friday he shared one of his new songs. When the song was over he smiled and thanked the audience for treating his new stuff with the same excitement that they treated the old stuff.
To me it is a lesson in gratitude. Sometimes we forget to be thankful for the things that we have. I am thankful to get to work the job that I have, a job that I love and feel led to do. I know that we are not all in that boat, I have worked the crappy jobs too but we need to remember to be thankful that we have a job at all. And when we land that dream job we definitely need to be thankful that God has put us in such a position.
Garth Brooks is like super crazy rich, in an interview with Barbara Walters in the 90s he said that he has more money than his children's children could spend. I am not sure if that is really true. I mean I know he is not hurting for money. And with the assets he has he could not care what other people think, he could not care about adding more shows to his tour if his shows sell out so that everyone that wants to see his show gets to. I know that he makes more money with every show he does, but how many artists do you know are willing to do 2 shows a night to please the fans? With everything he has and has accomplished he could just sit on his high throne and look down upon the rest of us but instead he appears to be genuinely grateful that people want to come to his shows. He seems grateful for the opportunity to play.
So I challenge us this week to find what we are genuinely grateful for. Whether it be our jobs or our families, whatever it might be. I believe the more thanks we give to God for what we have the more blessings we will receive. We need to start putting out more postivity in the world, more thanks for our blessings for even when the world does not seem to be going our way, there is always something to be positive about.
Emerson loves Garth's music, since he was an infant, Garth's voice has calmed him down when he was upset. Yesterday as I was listening to Nick's phone play music a song called "The Change" came on. It is not a song that Garth sang Friday night but it is one of my favorites. The chorus goes like this "I hear them saying, you will never change things, and no matter what you do it is still the same thing, but it is not the world that I am changing, I do this so this world will know that it will not change me." It really struck a chord with me yesterday. I thought this is exactly it. If we can show the world that we are grateful and that we care about others, it might not change the whole world but it will show that there is still hope and that there is power in not letting the world jade us.
Okay, I will get off my fangirl box for now. The real message is just that we need to be more grateful, more positive and thank God for the wonderful gifts that he has put in front of us. The more we do that, I believe the better our lives will be. What are you grateful for today?
I look forward to hearing from you.
Until next time,
~Michelle
Friday night my husband Nick, a friend Carrie and I went to the Garth Brooks/Trisha Yearwood concert in Omaha, Nebraska. I had seen Garth Brooks in concert many years ago and have watched his concert specials and such when I was growing up. My older sister was obsessed with Garth Brooks so in turn I have grown to love him as well. I appreciate his music and have always felt that he puts his whole soul into his music. And his concerts are amazing. You can truly tell that he loves what he does.
My little sister was pointing out the other day about how grateful that Garth is about what he does and the privileges that he has. He is a person that seems truly grateful to be doing the exact thing that he loves. And he appreciates the audience for coming out and playing with him. Friday he shared one of his new songs. When the song was over he smiled and thanked the audience for treating his new stuff with the same excitement that they treated the old stuff.
To me it is a lesson in gratitude. Sometimes we forget to be thankful for the things that we have. I am thankful to get to work the job that I have, a job that I love and feel led to do. I know that we are not all in that boat, I have worked the crappy jobs too but we need to remember to be thankful that we have a job at all. And when we land that dream job we definitely need to be thankful that God has put us in such a position.
Garth Brooks is like super crazy rich, in an interview with Barbara Walters in the 90s he said that he has more money than his children's children could spend. I am not sure if that is really true. I mean I know he is not hurting for money. And with the assets he has he could not care what other people think, he could not care about adding more shows to his tour if his shows sell out so that everyone that wants to see his show gets to. I know that he makes more money with every show he does, but how many artists do you know are willing to do 2 shows a night to please the fans? With everything he has and has accomplished he could just sit on his high throne and look down upon the rest of us but instead he appears to be genuinely grateful that people want to come to his shows. He seems grateful for the opportunity to play.
So I challenge us this week to find what we are genuinely grateful for. Whether it be our jobs or our families, whatever it might be. I believe the more thanks we give to God for what we have the more blessings we will receive. We need to start putting out more postivity in the world, more thanks for our blessings for even when the world does not seem to be going our way, there is always something to be positive about.
Emerson loves Garth's music, since he was an infant, Garth's voice has calmed him down when he was upset. Yesterday as I was listening to Nick's phone play music a song called "The Change" came on. It is not a song that Garth sang Friday night but it is one of my favorites. The chorus goes like this "I hear them saying, you will never change things, and no matter what you do it is still the same thing, but it is not the world that I am changing, I do this so this world will know that it will not change me." It really struck a chord with me yesterday. I thought this is exactly it. If we can show the world that we are grateful and that we care about others, it might not change the whole world but it will show that there is still hope and that there is power in not letting the world jade us.
Okay, I will get off my fangirl box for now. The real message is just that we need to be more grateful, more positive and thank God for the wonderful gifts that he has put in front of us. The more we do that, I believe the better our lives will be. What are you grateful for today?
I look forward to hearing from you.
Until next time,
~Michelle
Monday, May 4, 2015
A conversation with God
I have worked with a lot of different people in my life and am often found in a place of teaching others about God. Probably because it is my job but also because I choose to be a disciple for Christ and we are all called to share the good news. Anyway, one of the things I often hear from believers both new and old is that they struggle with prayer. I, myself, have certainly have had my times where I have been distant with God and have chosen for one reason or another not to talk to God but I have always known how. I am not really sure who taught be or when I learned. And truthfully I would never say that my way is the best way or the only way, it is just my way and I have found it to be effective in my life.
To me prayer is just a conversation. A conversation with God, one that can really start anyway you want to and for me often does not start the same way. Maybe this all stems from my childhood on the farm, there often times is nobody to talk to so it is kind of like talking to yourself except instead of answering yourself, you listen for the answer from outside of yourself.
There are no components that a prayer has to have. It is not like a speech that you are giving to the President or in class. It is just a conversation, like you would have with your best friend.
In Matthew chapter 6 verses 5-6, Matthew encourages us to pray alone, in private. Stating not to show off by praying loudly or in the church. I think that he is saying that the things we do in private and without the acknowledgement of others has a greater impact that those that we do in public.
My high school principal used to say that character is how we act when no one is watching. I think prayer is the same way. Who are we when we are alone, when no one is watching, when we have the opportunity to be our true selves without judgement? We should strive to be the best we can be at all times and part of that is our prayer lives. Do we think to pray when nobody else is around? When we are struggling or having the most amazing day are we thinking that we should bring that to God?
I am not saying I am perfect by any means, trust me I am still human and fail every day, but it is a goal to be better, to turn to God in all situations. It all starts with a conversation and when we enter in that conversation, it is amazing the rewards that we will receive. Remember it doesn't have to be fancy, we just have to say hello and be ready to listen.
How are your prayer lives going? I look forward to hearing from you all.
Until next time,
~Michelle
To me prayer is just a conversation. A conversation with God, one that can really start anyway you want to and for me often does not start the same way. Maybe this all stems from my childhood on the farm, there often times is nobody to talk to so it is kind of like talking to yourself except instead of answering yourself, you listen for the answer from outside of yourself.
There are no components that a prayer has to have. It is not like a speech that you are giving to the President or in class. It is just a conversation, like you would have with your best friend.
In Matthew chapter 6 verses 5-6, Matthew encourages us to pray alone, in private. Stating not to show off by praying loudly or in the church. I think that he is saying that the things we do in private and without the acknowledgement of others has a greater impact that those that we do in public.
My high school principal used to say that character is how we act when no one is watching. I think prayer is the same way. Who are we when we are alone, when no one is watching, when we have the opportunity to be our true selves without judgement? We should strive to be the best we can be at all times and part of that is our prayer lives. Do we think to pray when nobody else is around? When we are struggling or having the most amazing day are we thinking that we should bring that to God?
I am not saying I am perfect by any means, trust me I am still human and fail every day, but it is a goal to be better, to turn to God in all situations. It all starts with a conversation and when we enter in that conversation, it is amazing the rewards that we will receive. Remember it doesn't have to be fancy, we just have to say hello and be ready to listen.
How are your prayer lives going? I look forward to hearing from you all.
Until next time,
~Michelle
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